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Life Lesson 8: Weight Loss is Not Just Calories In and Out

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Michele

I have struggled with my weight for most of my life.  According to Louise Hay, weight is about protection…needing to feel safe and secure.  I agree with this.  My whole life has been about feeling secure and most of my decisions are based on how secure I feel in that moment.

About 9 or 10 years ago, I decided to join Weight Watchers.  I was in a different place in my life then.  I was truly living in the moment, enjoying life, experiencing new things and doing a lot of, what Julia Cameron calls, Artists Dates.  Artists Dates are where you do something that is just about you and, typically, you do it alone so the experience is yours alone.  I was taking classes, going places…truly living my life.  It was freeing and joyful.  Over the course of a year, I lost just under 100 pounds.  I maintained that weight loss for a while but began to gain it back when I had a stressful experience at work with an employee of mine.  I stopped everything positive. It was as if someone had flipped a switch.  I reverted back to every bad habit I’d ever had.

Here’s what’s interesting, though.  In Weight Watchers, I had one free day a week where I would choose to eat whatever I wanted.  Sometimes I really pigged out.  Yes, I was religious about tracking my points on the other six days and, yes, I worked out a lot but I allowed myself the freedom to do whatever I wanted that one day a week.  There wasn’t a single weigh in, over the course of that year, that I didn’t lose weight.  And I don’t think it was just about burning calories based on food and exercise.

I believe that enjoying life and feeling free also burns calories. 

I can’t explain it but I definitely know that stress can impact your ability to lose weight in a negative way so is it so far fetched to believe that enjoying your life can affect it in a positive way? 

I am not trying to lose weight now but I’ve lost 46 pounds in four months.  I bought a bike about half way through that and have ridden it about once a week.  I started doing yoga once a week a few weeks ago.  Other than that…not much exercise.  I do not track my food or “watch” what I eat.  I go out to restaurants, including fast food.  I enjoy food.  I have recently noticed that my portions have decreased in size as far as what I’m able to consume in a meal but nothing I’ve done has been about losing weight and I’m not doing enough, from a physiological perspective, to experience this level of weight loss.  I would need to be either burning or eating fewer calories than I need to maintain my weight to the tune of 7,000 a week to lose at the rate I’ve been losing and, I assure you, I don’t believe that’s the case.  I have also been to the doctor to rule out any medical issues and, other than a very low potassium level (now resolved), I am in really good health.

The big difference in my life is enjoying it fully.  Yes, there is stress present and my life isn’t perfect – I would never want to imply that it was anything else – but I am showing up in my life…doing things that appeal to me…trying new things and loving every minute of it.

And that has more value in my health than calories in or calories out.   The difference this time is knowing this is truly who I am and knowing I will never hide behind bad habits again.  I don’t need to be protected because I am safe and secure…just because I am.  The walls…the weight…they only create a false sense of safety and security.  True security comes from within.  From showing up.  From being present.  From living in the moment.

And I’m looking forward to a lifetime of that.

food fight

Covered in tomatoes at the Midwest Tomato Fest, July 2013
And, yes, I’ve shared this photo in a few places – me, looking like total crap, covered in tomatoes – I would have never let someone take a picture like this, let alone shared it in the past.

How present are you in your life?  Are you showing up every day and making it delicious?  You’d be amazed at the difference it makes.

30 day challenge

August 22, 2013 Filed Under: Life 6 Comments

About Michele

Michele Bergh is a teacher, a student and a lover of life. She is a healing artist who enjoys a variety of mediums and also has a few mad techie skills up her sleeves. By day she primarily does WordPress design and development and works with others to create a blissful life. By night, you'll find her behind a camera lens, on her bike, in a big comfy chair, cooking up a storm in her kitchen or sewing while listening to great music (probably from the 70s) on her ipod. Her greatest joy comes from living a orgasmic life by design.

What Others are Saying

  1. Jennifer Richardson says

    August 24, 2013 at 8:24 pm

    I LOVE this picture:)
    And I love your heart
    and how well you share it.
    big thanks,
    Jennifer

    Reply
    • Michele Bergh says

      August 25, 2013 at 6:05 pm

      I gotta be honest and tell you I had a bit of a pause when I shared this for the first time. It’s not exactly an attractive shot of me LOL. I”m glad I shared 🙂

      Reply
  2. Janel Anderson says

    August 22, 2013 at 2:18 pm

    Congratulations, Michele!

    There is a growing, but little publicized, body of research that proves that when our bodies and minds are in a state of “fight or flight” we are genetically hard-wired to put on weight, no matter how much we exercise or reduce our calorie intake. You may have heard people say, “I’m eating hardly anything and exercising like crazy and still not loosing weight.” They are not lying. But they are also living a totally stressed out “fight or flight” lifestyle. On the flip side, when we experience a relaxed, creative state of being, our bodies are really effective metabolism machines. We fully use the energy we take in. And you’re absolutely right about it coming from within. It is not uncommon in my coaching practice that someone comes to me for career/business coaching and experiences an unexplained weight loss during the coaching. The internal peace and freedom they experience as a result of coaching puts their body in a more efficient state.

    Cheers to you, my dear! Rock on!

    Reply
    • Michele says

      August 23, 2013 at 12:57 pm

      You said that very well and I couldn’t agree more!! Thank you!

      Reply
  3. Tonya says

    August 22, 2013 at 10:40 am

    Rock on my friend! You are beautiful inside and out!!!

    Reply
    • Michele says

      August 23, 2013 at 12:59 pm

      You are too kind, my friend 🙂 Thank you.

      Reply

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