Learning to forgive yourself for the ways you put yourself last will help you put the past behind you. If you can’t forgive yourself, the likelihood of you achieving clarity is reduced. Forgiveness provides clarity and clarity encourages insights and that supports change in behavior. When you forgive yourself or another, it does not mean you agree with their behavior, but rather it is about letting go of your need to be right so you can move forward.
~Rhonda Britten, Change Your Life in 30 Days