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Jessica Drake

Let’s Talk About Sex with Jessica Drake

My hubby and I recently attended a workshop at Fantasy Gifts, a local adult store, with Jessica Drake.  Jessica is in the adult film industry with a lot of experience, both as an actress and a director.  She also has her own line of sex-enhancing products.  Because of her background,…

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The Basics of Orgasmic Meditation

Orgasmic Meditation, also known as OM, is a spiritual practice being taught around the world.  When I first heard the term, I thought to myself…is this for real?  It seemed seemed like some hockey practice and I wasn’t sure I understood or would buy into it. True to my personality,…

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Are You Sexually Satisfied?

The other day I was reading an article online…I wish I could remember where so I could share but it was one of those surf around moments and I didn’t save it’s location. The article was about a woman who was feeling extremely sexually frustrated in her relationship. She was…

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Why Am I Crying During Sex

I asked the question recently, “What is one of your favorite memories around intimacy” in my Facebook group, Orgasmic Living By Design, and realized perhaps I’d like to share one of my own here.  It’s such a personal topic and I can feel my heart beating faster as I consider…


What is Orgasmic Living?

Orgasmic living is the key to all things yummy in your life.  The key. But understanding what orgasmic living is can be an entirely confusing concept…how do we harness the energy of an orgasm and bring that energy into every part of our being…every part of our lives?  That feels…

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Women Enjoy Lesbian Porn

Recently, a friend shared a post on Facebook about a study that was done indicating straight women enjoy watching lesbian porn more than any other kind of porn available…yes, straight women enjoy lesbian porn.  She was a bit shy about including the link to the article because she didn’t know…

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Living a Self-Actualized Life…Sex Life That Is

I recently listened to a great **and FREE** audio from Amy Jo Goddard called Sexual Evolution: the 5 Stages of Sexual Need.  I love Amy Jo and her ability to express around the topic of sex and intimacy.  While I’m not going to give away all the juicy goodness (you…


Boost Your Creativity through Orgasms

For some time now I’ve felt guided to talk about things of a more private nature, and sometimes even considered taboo.  Relationships, with self and with others, is the main theme.  And that includes sex.  I wrote a post back in my Life Lessons series about how sex is fun…

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Life Lesson 39: Sex Is Fun

Well, this is a different topic for me and I really questioned whether I should write this post but the truth is, it’s a big lesson I’ve learned over the years.  I’m not going to go into a lot of detail or anything but I think this lesson is one…